{"id":1140,"date":"2020-02-19T10:00:12","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T10:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/?p=1140"},"modified":"2025-07-01T17:20:22","modified_gmt":"2025-07-01T17:20:22","slug":"i-havent-failed-ive-discovered-10000-things-that-dont-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/i-havent-failed-ive-discovered-10000-things-that-dont-work\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI haven\u2019t failed.  I\u2019ve discovered 10,000 things that don\u2019t work.\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There\nare scholars who study group dynamics . . . that is, they study the way people\nbehave and interact with one another in a group setting.&nbsp; These scholars sometimes talk about a thing\ncalled \u201cthe Messiah Complex.\u201d&nbsp; This is a\nphenomenon that takes place when a group must confront a problem that is so\nbig, so scary, and so fraught with danger that they become paralyzed and unable\nto make a decision.&nbsp; So they turn to their\nleader . . . their Messiah . . . and cry, \u201cSave us!&nbsp; Tell us what to do and show us the way to the\nPromised Land.\u201d&nbsp; If the leader accepts\nthe mantle of Messiah and says, \u201cDon\u2019t worry.&nbsp;\nI\u2019ll take care of this.&nbsp; I\u2019ll save\nthe day. We\u2019ll all be fine,\u201d he or she just headed down the same path as that\nfella who lived a few thousand years ago.&nbsp;\nAs you may recall, things didn\u2019t work out all that well for the real\nMessiah, nor will they work out well for would-be Messiahs today.&nbsp; The first time the leader makes a mistake,\nhis or her followers will know this isn\u2019t the infallible answer person, the\nall-seeing, all-knowing leader that they thought he or she was.&nbsp; When that happens, the followers will turn on\ntheir leader, and the leader\u2019s days of leading just became significantly more\ndifficult.&nbsp; For more on this and some\nthoughts on how to avoid falling into the Messiah Complex trap, please continue\nreading below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cI\nhaven\u2019t failed.&nbsp; I\u2019ve discovered 10,000\nthings that don\u2019t work.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/strong><em>~\nThomas Edison<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many\nCEOs believe that they must put up a front of infallibility, that they must\nalways be the Answer Person.&nbsp; They run\nafoul of the Messiah Complex because they\u2019re afraid if they ever say, \u201cI don\u2019t\nknow,\u201d it would be a sign of weakness and their leadership ability would then\nbe called into question.&nbsp; It\u2019s interesting\nthat when leaders fall into the Messiah Complex trap, they only hasten the very\nthing they\u2019re trying to avoid . . . loss of confidence by their followers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tim\nHartford, economics writer and business speaker, talks about the \u201cGod Complex\u201d\nwhich is essentially the same thing as the Messiah Complex.&nbsp; He describes it as \u201cno matter how complicated\nthe problem, you have an absolutely overwhelming belief that you are infallibly\nright in your solution.\u201d&nbsp; He goes on to\nsay that the world has become a very complicated place with an uncountable\nnumber of products and services, scattered over billions of people who live in\nhundreds of different cultures.&nbsp; &nbsp;As a result, the problems we try to solve can\nbe bewilderingly complicated with an enormous number of variations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s\nnot to say we can\u2019t solve complicated problems.&nbsp;\nWe absolutely can, but we need to jettison the God Complex (the need to\nbe right all the time), approach problems with humility, and adopt a\nproblem-solving technique that actually works: namely, trial and error.&nbsp; After all, through her natural selection\nprocess, Mother Nature has been successfully solving problems for millions of\nyears.&nbsp; Medical researchers use trial and\nerror techniques all the time as they look for treatments to intractable\ndiseases.&nbsp; For that matter, trial and\nerror is the problem-solving technique of choice for the entire scientific community.&nbsp; It\u2019s also the technique of choice for many\nbusiness problems.&nbsp; When we want to bring\na new product or service to market, we will often test it in a small area\nbefore we roll it out to our entire marketplace.&nbsp; In our marketing efforts, we try different\n\u201ckeywords\u201d to discover what words and phrases resonate the best with our target\naudience.&nbsp; But as Thomas Edison pointed\nout as he struggled to invent the electric light bulb, you may make a lot of\nerrors before you finally get it right.&nbsp;\nIf you suffer from the God Complex that\u2019s an issue for you because solving\nproblems by trial and error means you\u2019re probably going to be wrong more often\nthan right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kathryn\nSchulz, who calls herself a \u201cwrongologist\u201d, is a staff writer for the New\nYorker magazine.&nbsp; She points out that\nculturally, we have stigmatized being wrong.&nbsp;\nWe learn in grade school that if you don\u2019t perform well in class or on\ntests, you\u2019re labeled \u201cthat dumb kid\u201d or worse.&nbsp;\nLater in life, out in the working world, we learn that being wrong can\nstifle or even end a career.&nbsp; And this compulsion\nto be right carries some real human costs as well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>It prevents us from forming strong,\npersonal relationships with those who disagree with us.<\/li><li>It prevents us from communicating\neffectively with those who disagree with us.<\/li><li>It robs us of opportunities to try out new\nideas<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So\nwe knock ourselves out trying to be right all the time because it makes us feel\ngood and smart and safe, while being wrong makes us feel just the opposite.&nbsp; But in Schulz\u2019s view, we should not only own\nup to our fallibility, we should celebrate it because that\u2019s the way we learn,\nthe way we create, and the way we innovate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sir\nKen Robinson, an expert in education and creativity, said it this way: \u201cIf\nyou\u2019re not prepared to be wrong, you\u2019ll never come up with anything\noriginal.\u201d&nbsp; Makes sense, doesn\u2019t it?&nbsp; When something is original, it\u2019s unique . . .\nthat is, it\u2019s never been done before, so there\u2019s no way of knowing, for sure,\nthat it will work the way you want it to.&nbsp;\nFear of failure has undoubtedly prevented many great ideas from ever\nseeing the light of day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Therefore,\nto avoid the trap of the Messiah Complex (or God Complex, if you prefer), here\nare a few things you can do:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>Get\nover yourself.&nbsp; Stop being the Answer Person.&nbsp; You don\u2019t have all the answers.&nbsp; You know it, your followers know it, so stop\nthe charade.<\/li><li>When\nyou make a mistake, don\u2019t try to hide it, don\u2019t try to ignore it, and\nabsolutely don\u2019t try to shift the blame to someone else.&nbsp; Acknowledge it, own it, and move on.<\/li><li>When\nsomeone asks you to solve a problem for them, don\u2019t do it.&nbsp; Instead, have the self-confidence to say\nsomething like, \u201cI dunno.&nbsp; I\u2019ve never\ncome across anything like that before. &nbsp;What\ndo you think we should do about it?\u201d<\/li><li>Set\nthe tone for trying new things.&nbsp; Make it\nclear that there\u2019s no shame when a well-intentioned innovation doesn\u2019t turn out\nthe way everybody hoped it would.<\/li><li>Be\na learning place.&nbsp; When something goes\nwrong, or a mistake is made, or a creative idea doesn\u2019t quite pan out, make it\na learning experience.&nbsp; Ask your people,\n\u201cWhat did we learn from that?\u201d<\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are scholars who study group dynamics . . . that is, they study the way people behave and interact with one another in a group setting.&nbsp; These scholars sometimes talk about a thing called \u201cthe Messiah Complex.\u201d&nbsp; This is a phenomenon that takes place when a group must confront a problem that is so<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/i-havent-failed-ive-discovered-10000-things-that-dont-work\/\">Read More\u2026<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[39,36,34,33,30,26,22],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1140"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1140"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1140\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1141,"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1140\/revisions\/1141"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1140"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1140"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rocksolidbizdevelopment.com\/ourblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1140"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}